Преди и след „Каква е вината на Фатмагюл?” (Fatmagul'un Suçu Ne?) – Тема 171

msalem - meero, on 21 December 2012 - 06:47 PM, said:

but he was unbelievably tolerant with her when they fight, becuz of his inner feeling of guilt, I mean if they were a normal couple, they would have disagreed more frequently, and we would see kerim as intolerant as any other man

msalem - meero, on 21 December 2012 - 06:49 PM, said:

I mean he was super tender becuz of the rape incident, and if it wasn't for it, he would have been as dumb-head as any other man

meerocim
I totally understand what u r saying!
but they aren't a normal couple!

u can't look at FG and kerim without the incident
bec. they would have never been together otherwise. this is one.

but u can analyze each on its own
and as characterization go both their upbringing made them special
FG was mature before her age with her parents death, the torture of her yenge and helping to raise Murat.
Kerim was a boy but a good boy...awfully nice and gracious.

Don't forget! Kerim had another way of handling things as in the original tale...where he was an A** to say the least...an animal in every way
but Our kerim is not ur average dude!
he thinks of the "man" as a killing machine of mothers, that it is why I think if he wasn't with them that day he would n't have been much different of FG's kerim.
He learned a lot with her
He matured with her.

I don't think they fought a lot except about Mustafa...
other times it was her venting off, blowing the steam off coz of the fires she felt inside
they reached a level of understanding that made everyday wife and husband quarrels would have been rare
Do u remember after the session with the psychiatrist when they decided they will talk about everything!
they connected like no couple has ever before
Bella had to remove the sheild over her brain so that she can connect with Edward
FG and Kerim don't need that...